Hi, there! Thank you for reading and for your thoughtful question. We are conditioned to be racist the minute we come out of the womb. White supremacy and patriarchy and gender binaries — which stem from white supremacy (see Ericka Hart’s work for more on this/ you can google this and dig…first pages of google are usually not great sources, right?) — bombard us from day one. There are quite a lot of authors who speak to this. Do you know about the group “No White Saviors”? I had a look at your profile picture and I am curious if that is your child, or if that is one of your students?